The Rupture of Love and the Belief in Separation

Hi beauties,

This is probably the most important email I’ve ever sent. This is something that is on my heart so heavy today. With the state of the world at this time it’s important to consider these perspectives. As somebody who is constantly trying to learn, to be a better woman and to support others in their pursuit of love both within themselves and outside of themselves - I felt compelled to share this today. This is a conversation - not just a newsletter. Your path is your own, and this is just my perspective right now … but I wanted to share this dose of love with you all and hopefully it will ripple into the rooms where it’s meant to be through this share.

The Rupture of Love and the Belief in Separation

Firstly, I want to acknowledge how much beauty and love there is in the world. I encourage you to notice the spaces in your day that emanates that truth.

But with that contrast and the recent days many are noticing there is also so much violence in the world right now. Some of it makes headlines, some of it never does. When we look deeply, we begin to see a common thread: violence is born from belief systems colliding. It’s people who are so convinced their truth is the only truth that they choose hatred, punishment, and control over love.

At the heart of all conflict, whether political, religious, or personal, is the same wound the rupture of love. The belief that “we are separate,” that “I must protect my truth against yours,” is what fuels the chaos.

Yet in this very moment, more people than ever are waking up. We see it in the rise of self-development, in the hunger for meaning, in the countless voices speaking out across politics, health, spirituality, and society. The collective energy is more charged than it has been in decades. More people are finding their voice, their truth, and their power and yet this awakening also stirs polarity.

And so we face the essential question: how do we walk through a world of so many differences, so many perspectives, without collapsing into fear, hatred, or superiority?

The Role of Love in a Divided World

It begins with remembering that the ground of all being is love.

Love does not require us to bypass the distortions we see in the world. Love does not ask us to agree with everyone, or to pretend all beliefs are harmless. Love asks us to witness clearly, to discern wisely, and to hold the humanity of each person, even as we acknowledge their shadows. While moving sovereignly in the directions we are pulled to move. On the individual missions we are living.

We need more courage for uncomfortable conversations. To sit across from someone who believes differently and still listen. To express our truth without needing to annihilate theirs. To recognize that every single person is on their own journey of becoming, carrying their own wounds, their own conditioning, their own search for safety.

Beyond Spiritual Bypassing

Even within spiritual communities, it’s easy to fall into bypassing.

Phrases like “they’re not at my frequency” or “I don’t deal with low vibration” can sound like wisdom, but often they are shields against the messiness of real human difference. They are ways of turning away from humanity in all its complexity.

But real spirituality doesn’t separate us from humanity it roots us deeper in it.

Real love doesn’t put people in categories of “awake” and “asleep.”

Real love looks at the whole of someone’s journey and says, I can see where you are, and I can still honour the essence of who you are.

A Call to Bridge the Gap

We are not here to erase difference.

We are here to hold the tension of difference with enough love that transformation can occur. We are not here to bypass the truth of what is happening at any moment. Love is not bypassing truth; it’s seeing clearly what is right and what is wrong, yet refusing to close our hearts as we hold both with compassion. You don’t have to forgo your discernment in the name of love. But there is a grace you can learn to embody.

We are here to recognize that contrast the very friction we resist is often what wakes people up. It is in seeing distortion that truth becomes abundantly clearer. It is in witnessing violence that the call for peace and sometimes justice for what matters collectively - becomes louder.

But if we respond only with judgment, only with righteousness, we replicate the very cycles of separation we long to break.

Now, more than ever, the world needs people who will speak their truth with clarity, while holding others in dignity. Who can say, I do not agree with you, and I will still not diminish your humanity.

All in all ..

This is the work of our time: to bridge the gap of difference with love.

To see people as they are, not as we want them to be.

To honour each person’s journey without denying our own.

To let our discernment sharpen our vision, but let our love guide our action.

Because the truth is this: every person deserves love. Every person deserves safety and until we live in a world where love is the foundation, our work is not done.

Lots of love,

Brenna